We’re hardwired to return kindness received
Considered the most powerful global social rule, our initial actions can be highly persuasive in affecting others’ judgements and decisions thereafter.
Jacob, C., Guéguen, N., & Boulbry, G. (2015). Effect of an unexpected small favor on compliance with a survey request. Journal of Business Research, 68, 56–59.
The study
407 pedestrians in Brittany, France were approached by a young woman and asked to complete a survey. Before the request, half were offered candy and the other half were not.
The results found that people - especially women - were far more likely to reciprocate and answer the survey after receiving a gift than when not.
Jacob, C., Guéguen, N., & Boulbry, G. (2015). Effect of an unexpected small favor on compliance with a survey request. Journal of Business Research, 68, 56–59.
We call Reciprocity the glue that binds us as a society.
No surprise then that it’s a powerful tool to help people make decisions that are both pro-social and a win-win.
When the Behavioural Insights Team were asked by the UK Government to increase the rates of job-seekers turning up to interviews, they applied the principle of Reciprocity to boost rates.
They changed the text message being sent out from:
“You’ve been booked an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am”
to:
“Dave,
I’ve booked you an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am.
Good luck.
Roxy”
This shift from a passive tone of voice to an active tone, where Roxy had done something kind for you (and you then wanted to reciprocate by turning up), increased attendance from 10% up to a whopping 27%.
Key Takeaways
Act first.
Find ways to initiate reciprocity with consumers. Merely asking those satisfied to go tell their friends will work (Söderlund et al., 2015).
Make it a ‘common habit’.
When we’re told that a behavior is a social norm shared by others, we’re more likely to reciprocate. Households in USA and India consume significantly less electricity when told that their neighbors are consuming less (Sudarshan, 2014). In the long-term, any consistent, successful behaviors will be adopted as the default for others.
Do it in person.
Reciprocation appears to be more powerful when requests from strangers are made face to face rather than online. This is due to the persuasive impact of immediacy that physicality affords, the higher levels of digital suspicion and the sheer number of emails people receive (Meier, 2016).
In further detail
We call Reciprocity the glue that binds us as a society.
No surprise then that it’s a powerful tool to help people make decisions that are both pro-social and a win-win.
When the Behavioural Insights Team were asked by the UK Government to increase the rates of job-seekers turning up to interviews, they applied the principle of Reciprocity to boost rates.
They changed the text message being sent out from:
“You’ve been booked an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am”
to:
“Dave,
I’ve booked you an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am.
Good luck.
Roxy”
This shift from a passive tone of voice to an active tone, where Roxy had done something kind for you (and you then wanted to reciprocate by turning up), increased attendance from 10% up to a whopping 27%.
We’re hardwired to return kindness received
Considered the most powerful global social rule, our initial actions can be highly persuasive in affecting others’ judgements and decisions thereafter.
Jacob, C., Guéguen, N., & Boulbry, G. (2015). Effect of an unexpected small favor on compliance with a survey request. Journal of Business Research, 68, 56–59.
The study
407 pedestrians in Brittany, France were approached by a young woman and asked to complete a survey. Before the request, half were offered candy and the other half were not.
The results found that people - especially women - were far more likely to reciprocate and answer the survey after receiving a gift than when not.
Jacob, C., Guéguen, N., & Boulbry, G. (2015). Effect of an unexpected small favor on compliance with a survey request. Journal of Business Research, 68, 56–59.
We call Reciprocity the glue that binds us as a society.
No surprise then that it’s a powerful tool to help people make decisions that are both pro-social and a win-win.
When the Behavioural Insights Team were asked by the UK Government to increase the rates of job-seekers turning up to interviews, they applied the principle of Reciprocity to boost rates.
They changed the text message being sent out from:
“You’ve been booked an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am”
to:
“Dave,
I’ve booked you an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am.
Good luck.
Roxy”
This shift from a passive tone of voice to an active tone, where Roxy had done something kind for you (and you then wanted to reciprocate by turning up), increased attendance from 10% up to a whopping 27%.
Key Takeaways
Act first.
Find ways to initiate reciprocity with consumers. Merely asking those satisfied to go tell their friends will work (Söderlund et al., 2015).
Make it a ‘common habit’.
When we’re told that a behavior is a social norm shared by others, we’re more likely to reciprocate. Households in USA and India consume significantly less electricity when told that their neighbors are consuming less (Sudarshan, 2014). In the long-term, any consistent, successful behaviors will be adopted as the default for others.
Do it in person.
Reciprocation appears to be more powerful when requests from strangers are made face to face rather than online. This is due to the persuasive impact of immediacy that physicality affords, the higher levels of digital suspicion and the sheer number of emails people receive (Meier, 2016).
In further detail
We call Reciprocity the glue that binds us as a society.
No surprise then that it’s a powerful tool to help people make decisions that are both pro-social and a win-win.
When the Behavioural Insights Team were asked by the UK Government to increase the rates of job-seekers turning up to interviews, they applied the principle of Reciprocity to boost rates.
They changed the text message being sent out from:
“You’ve been booked an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am”
to:
“Dave,
I’ve booked you an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am.
Good luck.
Roxy”
This shift from a passive tone of voice to an active tone, where Roxy had done something kind for you (and you then wanted to reciprocate by turning up), increased attendance from 10% up to a whopping 27%.
We’re hardwired to return kindness received
The study
407 pedestrians in Brittany, France were approached by a young woman and asked to complete a survey. Before the request, half were offered candy and the other half were not.
The results found that people - especially women - were far more likely to reciprocate and answer the survey after receiving a gift than when not.
In detail
We call Reciprocity the glue that binds us as a society.
No surprise then that it’s a powerful tool to help people make decisions that are both pro-social and a win-win.
When the Behavioural Insights Team were asked by the UK Government to increase the rates of job-seekers turning up to interviews, they applied the principle of Reciprocity to boost rates.
They changed the text message being sent out from:
“You’ve been booked an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am”
to:
“Dave,
I’ve booked you an interview at Tesco on Friday at 10am.
Good luck.
Roxy”
This shift from a passive tone of voice to an active tone, where Roxy had done something kind for you (and you then wanted to reciprocate by turning up), increased attendance from 10% up to a whopping 27%.
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Read moreScarcity
We value things more when they’re in limited supply
Social Proof
We copy the behaviors of others, especially in unfamiliar situations
Prospect Theory
A loss hurts more than an equal gain feels good
Reciprocity
We’re hardwired to return kindness received
Framing
We make very different decisions based on how a fact is presented
Loss Aversion
We feel more negative when losing something than positive when we gain it
Self-Expression
We constantly seek out ways to communicate our identity to others
Default Effect
We tend to accept the option pre-chosen for us
Priming
Our decisions are shaped by memories recalled from things just seen or heard
Anchoring
What we see first affects our judgement of everything thereafter
Autonomy Bias
We have a deep-seated need to control our situations
Fast & Slow Thinking
We make knee-jerk spontaneous decisions that can cause regretful damage
Status Quo Bias
We tend to stick with our previous choices, even if the alternatives might be better
Dynamic Norms
We’re more likely to change if we can see a new behavior developing
Round Pricing Preference
We prefer and trust whole numbers over those ending in a 9
Salience
Our choices are determined by the information we're shown